Handfasting is a time-honoured tradition that’s been gaining traction at weddings far beyond Scotland.
Once a practical contractual gesture, today it makes for a beautiful and deeply symbolic ceremony.
What is a Handfastening?
Handfasting first appeared in Scotland and wider Celtic regions during the Middle Ages as a form of betrothal—binding a couple together in marriage or engagement.
It’s safe to say this tradition has stood the test of time with couples from all over the world adopting the ceremonial act.

A ceremonial binding:
Partners join hands, and tartan ribbons or cords, are wrapped around them. Whilst each person recites their vows, a knot is tied around their hands, binding them to their promise.
When the couple pull their hands apart, they tighten and seal the knot close. You can see how this tradition created the phrase “tying the knot“.




Choosing the right Tartan for you:
Choosing a tartan to reflect the two individuals coming together as one, is a great way to symbolise their families and legacies doing so also.
Lauren and Noah opted to choose ‘Robertson Hunting Muted’, to represent Lauren and her family, and ‘Gunn Modern’, to reflect Noah and his family.
You can choose any tartan that has a meaning to you, be it a district, clan or purely for aesthetics!
Did you know that anyone can perform the hand fastening? As this part of the ceremony is not legally binding, you can invite a relative or close family friend to perform the ritual to involve them on your special day.
Although the tradition started in Scotland, it is now being practiced worldwide. As the ceremonial act has no direct religious ties, people from all faiths and nationalities resonate with the act and how it so perfectly symbolises the coming together of two families.
If you are looking to add a tartan hand fastening to your ceremony, you can order one from us here, or send us an email with any special requests.
Or browse our full range of popular Tartan wedding accessories here on our website.
Photos Courtesy of Joanne Clenaghan Photography; www.JoanneClenaghan.com